Just a note. I found this old post it was my first post but I thought I had lost it, because the internet went down after typing it and I didn't realize it saved it until today. Still think it is worth posting. This is obviously my first time posting a blog and not sure what to post, so I will start with what is most important to me, God, church, and Patrick. Tonight at church we had a message about the prudent husband or wife and how you can go to places i.e. church, school, college, and even oline dating services but none can guarantee a prudent mate, that can only come from the Lord. So I just wanted to express my thankfulness to God that He blessed me with such a wonderful man. Everyday at work, I hear my peers talk bad about their spouse and I do not know the situation completely, but I know that I have never nor would I ever say such things of Patrick. I my heart breaks that these women do not have this bond with their husbands, someone that is their best friend and leader of the home. It is sad to me that many women treat their husbands as another child in the home